Dalam menolak cinta seseorang, lelaki dan perempuan mungkin menggunakan kalimat yang sama, tapi apa yang ada di dalam hati mereka bisa jauh berbeda.
Berikut 10 kalimat yang diucapkan perempuan ketika menolak cinta seorang lelaki, dan kata hatinya :
1. Kamu sudah kuanggap sebagai kakak. (Kamu mengingatkanku pada Mandra)
2. Beda usia kita terlalu jauh. (Aku tidak ingin kamu menjadi bapakku)
3. Aku tidak tertarik padamu bukan karena penampilanmu. (Kamu lelakit erjelek yang pernah kukenal)
4. Hidupku sedang kacau sekarang. (Aku tidak ingin kamu mengetahui teman-teman kencanku yang lain)
5. Aku sudah punya pacar. (Aku lebih suka main dengan kucing jantanku)
6. Aku tidak suka kencan dengan teman sekantor. (Aku berharap kamu kerja di lain kantor, tapi masih satu gedung)
7. Bukan karena kamu kok, tapi aku. (Kamu kok penyebabnya)
8. Aku ingin berkonsentrasi pada karir. (Walaupun pekerjaanku kadang membosankan, tapi masih lebih baik daripada berkencan denganmu)
9. Aku masih ingin sendiri. (Kamu lelaki paling menyebalkan)
10.Kita berteman aja ya. (Agar kamu tahu betapa banyaknya lelaki yangmenginginkanku)
***Jika lelaki yang mengucapkannya :
1. Kamu sudah kuanggap sebagai kakak. (padahal sudah banyak kakak cewek)
2. Beda usia kita terlalu jauh. (kagak ngaruh, kalo suka)
3. Aku tidak tertarik padamu bukan karena penampilanmu. (gak level)
4. Hidupku sedang kacau sekarang. (karena ada kamu)
5. Aku sudah punya pacar. (padahal lagi nyari)
6. Aku tidak suka kencan dengan teman sekantor. (nunggu temen sekantor yg cantikan)
7. Bukan karena kamu kok, tapi aku. (padahal males deh sama kamu)
8. Aku ingin berkonsentrasi pada karir. (karir yg menyebalkanpun buat alasan)
9. Aku masih ingin sendiri. (nyari yg lebih baik akhh)
10. Kita berteman aja ya. (gak ingin jadian sama kamu banget)
So frendz, jangan berharap pada seseorang yg memberikan alasan2 diatas, cari aja yg lain...masih banyak kan org yg bakal ditemuin yg bisa suka sama kamu,
love fil find you if you try....
04 Desember 2008
CIRI2 PENOLAKAN CINTA SESEORANG
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03 Desember 2008
DID I MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON
Untuk semua yang udah married dan yg blm married....Dr. John C. Maxwell)
During one of our seminars, a woman asked a common question. She said,"How> do I know if I married the right person?" I noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so I said, "It depends. Is that your husband?" In all seriousness, she answered "How do you know?" Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind.
>> Here's the answer: EVERY relationship has a cycle
>> In the beginning,you fell in love with your spouse. You anticipated their call,wanted their touch, and liked their idiosyncrasies.
>> Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely> natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love... Because it's happening TO YOU.
>> People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my feet." Think about the> imagery of that expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something came along and happened TO YOU. Falling> is love is easy. It's a passive and spontaneous experience. But after afew years of marriage, the euphoria of love fades. It's the natural cycle of EVERY relationship. Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (ifthey come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens),and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts. The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, but if you thinkabout your marriage, you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.
>> At this point, you and/or your spouse might start asking, "Did I marry the right person?" And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when marriages breakdown. People blame their spouse fortheir unhappiness and look outside their marriage for fulfillment.
>> Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most obvious. But sometimes people turn to work, church, a hobby, a friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the answer to this> dilemma does NOT lie outside your marriage. It lies within it. I'm not> saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could.
>> And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation afew years later. Because (listen carefully to this):
>> THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON;
IT'S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND.
>> SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. It'll NEVER just happen to you. You can't "find" LASTING love. You have to "make" it day in and day out. That's why we have the expression "the labor of love." Because it takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it takes> WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work.
>> Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your spouse) to succeed with your marriage.
>> Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. Just as the right diet and exercise> program makes you physically stronger, certain habits in your relationship> WILL make your marriage stronger. It's a direct cause and effect. If you> know and apply the laws, the results are predictable. .. you can "make" love.
>> Love in marriage is indeed a "decision".. . Not just a feeling.
>>"Though you cannot go back and make a brand new start, my friend. Anyone can start from now and make a brand new end."
I marry with the better person, and i always pray for him always be the better man that i ever had.
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03 November 2008
On Marriage
You were born together, and together you shall be forevermore.
You shall be together when white wings of death scatter your days.
Aye, you shall be together even in the silent memory of God.
But let there be spaces in your togetherness,
And let the winds of the heavens dance between you.
Love one another but make not a bond of love:
Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls.
Fill each other's cup but drink not from one cup.
Give one another of your bread but eat not from the same loaf.
Sing and dance together and be joyous, but let each one of you be alone,
Even as the strings of a lute are alone though they quiver with the same music.
Give your hearts, but not into each other's keeping.
For only the hand of Life can contain your hearts.
And stand together, yet not too near together:
For the pillars of the temple stand apart,
And the oak tree and the cypress grow not in each other's shadow
by: Kahlil Gibran Read More ..
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Arti Cinta Seorang Hacker
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RESEP KUE CINTA
RESEP KUE CINTA
BAHAN:
1 pria sehat,
1 wanita sehat,
100% Komitmen,
2 pasang restu orang tua,
botol kasih sayang murni.
BUMBU - BUMBU:
1 balok besar humor,
25 gr rekreasi,
1 bungkus doa,
2 sendok teh telpon-telponan,
(Semuanya diaduk hingga merata dan mengembang)
Tips Memilih Bahan:
Pilih pria dan wanita yang benar-benar matang dan seimbang. Jangan yang satu terlalu tua dan yang lainnya terlalu muda karena dapat mempengaruhi kelezatan.
Sebaiknya dibeli di toserba bernama TEMPAT IBADAH, walau agak jual mahal tapi mutunya terjamin.
Jangan beli di pasar yang bernama DISKOTIK atau PARTY karena walaupun modelnya bagus dan harum baunya tapi kadang menipu konsumen/menggunakan zat pewarna yang bisa merusak kesehatan.
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12 signs your falling in love
1. You'll read his or her texts over and over again...(baru 2x)
2. You'll walk really really slow while you're with him/her...(kog gw jalannya cepet ya...)
3. You'll pretend 2 be shy whenever you're with him/her...(maksudnya jaim, iya juga siy)
4. While thinking 'bout him/her...your heart will beat faster and faster...(deg-degan gitu, iya betul)
5. By listening to his/her voice...you'll smile for no reason.(gila donks)
6. While looking at him/her..you cant see the other people around you...you can only see that person...(yg laen hantu maksudnya??)
7. You'll start listening to SLOW songs. (R n B slow songs bukan ya?)
8. He/She becomes all you think about. ( definetely and always..)
9. You'll get high just by their smell...(kalo dia pake Parfume, hu'uh)
10. You'll realize that you're always smiling to yourself when you think about him..(kadang smile kadang cemberut jg siy)
11. You'll do anything for him/her...(namanya juga buat yayangku)
12. While reading this, there was one person on your mind the whole time..... (my beloved: aa ku chayang)
so do you think that i'm fallin' in love??? do you???
kayak gitcu gak.......
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